The Story of Nepali Mother’s Day

Once upon a time, a boy was in the habit of grazing his cattle near a local pond. One day, during lunch, he dropped some of his food ino the pond by accident. Every day this would happen, although he tried to avoid it; time and time again, little bits of food would fall into the pond and disappear beneath the surface. Finally, curiosity got the better of him. He got down on his knees and gazed into the depths of the water, hoping to discover why the food kept falling in, and where it went. Much to his surprise, he found himself staring directly into the eyes of his mother, returned from the dead, answering his gaze lovingly from beneath the pond’s waters.

The boy was overjoyed, and pleaded with his mother to leave the pond and return home with him. No matter how much he insisted, and even though he began to cry and beg, his mother gently told him she could not leave her own death behind; she could never return home with him. But she was so moved by his love that she promised to return for him once every year, on Baishak Krishna Aushi [Baishak is the first month of the Nepali year, and Krishna Aushi is the day of the first New Moon]. He agreed, and they parted ways.

The next year, and every year afterwards, he returned to the pond to visit his mother on that same day, bringing her offerings of food and rejoicing in their temporary reunion. Over the years, many other people heard his story and began to visit their mothers, too, for all who came to seek their mothers with love in their hearts were able to find them.

One day, a young woman came to the pond to see her mother. Although she waited and waited and waited–and loved her mother very much–her mother did not appear. The young woman was so distraught she drowned herself in the pond, overwhelmed by grief. Her suicide showed great disrespect, and brought dishonor to her mother. The power of her suicide was so great that the magic of the pond was diminished; it was no longer able to overcome death, not even for a day. The mothers could no longer undertake the journey from the beyond the grave, they could no longer appear in the pond and visit their loved ones. But the love between mother and child is so great that children continue to visit their mothers to this day, to bathe in the waters and offer food and other gifts to show their love and respect for their mothers.

The world is such an awesome place, full of wonderful stories and traditions. That’s today’s story, and today’s tradition. Go tell your mom about it. Go ahead. And take her some nice food, too.